• Coreidan@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    For real? That’s both sad and creepy.

    I hope the other person in the relationship bailed for their own sake.

    • 🦄🦄🦄@feddit.de
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      2 months ago

      That’s both sad and creepy.

      How is it either of those things? Let people fuck who they want to fuck as long as it is consentual, who cares?

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        2 months ago

        “Hey babe. I made a mistake. I want to get back together.”

        “Sure no problem! Me too! I just need to plow through this list of dudes I’m gonna fuck first.”

        Seems like an awfully shitty thing to do to someone that’s genuinely interested in you.

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          2 months ago

          You cheat on someone: you’re a worthless piece of shit.

          You don’t get back together with someone because you want to have sex with other people first: you’re sad and creepy.

          One can never win when it comes to sex in a puritanical society, unless they very faithfully only have sex with one person.

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          2 months ago

          Sounds kinda hot to me. To spice things up, I’d want to hear all about it when we get back together.

          E: Kink shamers, the lot of you! I’d rather be with an experienced lady over someone who’s only been with me.

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        2 months ago

        Making a list of people to fuck can be a bit creepy for exactly the reason you mentioned: consent—or the absence of it.